It was the mid-2010s - after the book 50 Shades or Grey came out - I met a woman through DIrtyPenPals who became my submissive for years.

She was a married woman who had a young child. We started messaging on Reddit. This was even before th current chat system.

I got to know her and we spoke for days on end. We would talk about everything from the ordinary to the erotic and everything in between.

We would wake up and say good morning...and talk all day. I would ask what she was wearing and she would tell me in detail. She would tell me everything about her sexual relationship with her husband, as well as deep sexy desires she couldn't tell anyone else.

I loved the front row seat I had to this woman's inner sexual thoughts.

I would ask her what she was wearing...all the time.

She would send me pictures at any time.

I came to love hearing about what she was wearing...and increasingly would give her instructions on what to wear...and she would show me pictures of the outfits.

It grew from there and it became more and more detailed with instructions.

She would dress without a bra on command, she would take a video call to start the day and let me watch her get dressed. She would be open to any kind of task I assigned.

It became an integral part of my days - and we would explore a number of tasks and kinks in the days and months to come.

More on those experiences in future posts.