So I (22F) am heading to El Salvador next year for my niece's Quince. My Family owns a mountain over there with 7 of my aunts and uncle each in charge of making sure we thrive. Now my oldest uncle Carlos and my other uncle Hernando are butting heads over Hernando's money because he got injured in 2012 in the U.S and lived to sue the pants off his employer. He won a 10 million dollar settlement and he used that money to make a house, improve conditions at the farm, buy more supplies and help the family out. My uncle Carlos want more money to fulfill his own personal pleasures like buying booze, and he have a history of squandering money on luxury items such as booze and drugs. So obviously my uncle Hernando said hell no. They have been at odds ever since with my Grandmother being the only one to calm those bobas down. Now here is where I come in, my uncle already picked an heir to the massive settlement and he picked me because back when they wondered when he was gonna live, I stuck by his hospital side with my mom and sister silently begging God to save him and let him live. Now my Nickname over there is heredera or heiress because of my "gloomy" demeanor and my presence always being cold. My uncle tried to cozy up to me to get more money but I admittedly have been blunt and told him to knock it off the money will be for the mountain and the people we help with myself only getting 10% when my uncle pass. It's been decided and he genuinely trusts me so I can never let him down. We maintained this composure until a couple weeks ago one of Hernando's friend suddenly dies due to a heart attack and Hernando began to accuse Carlos because Carlos was there the night of. Carlos denied it but is happy the friend is dead. Tensions began growing in the family that when I called my other uncle, Wilbur he said to begin thinking about a will if I come because in the mountains, it's up to God only. I was shaken by this phone call and I remember booking plane tickets to later next year. This scares me but I know I have to go to be by my uncle"# side and try to keep the calm in my family and do my duty but things are getting intense and we don't know what's in store but it feels uneasy. I don't want to go because I love my life and friends here and don't want to leave it all and not come back if something happens. Then again it's up to fate and myself to do the right thing.