I'm married, only for 4 years though. (37 Male) The passion, intimacy in fact all forms of contact have pretty much ceased between the wife and I. We have 2 kids and work for ourselves and over the last 2 years we've just grown apart. I've tried so much and it always falls flat. I miss the touch of skin...... We used to be crazy, we were that PDA couple that everyone loved, we were known as the power couple but I can't get anywhere these days, If I go in for a cheeky boob caress I'm taking liberties and she doesn't like it. I just want some attention, I've considered having an affair (just to satisfy my needs) but I don't think it's fair on the kids. I do most of the stuff around the house, I pay most of the bills and I just feel like, maybe, I'd like some attention.... Am I wrong???

I JUST WANT TO BE WANTED...... What should I do??? Please help me.