Let me start by saying I don't believe everyone is a bad person and I have a very positive relationship with my boss coming from a very violent turbulent family she really has been a lifesaver for me, but she just paid 4000 for my education as a gift and I don't recognise how to feel about it I don't feel worth the money, and even though outside of work we are close friends I feel like she crossed a line she's put me in a postion where it take me two years to pay it back she keeps telling me it's a gift but It feels forced like she made the choice for me i am grateful for it as I always wanted to keep going further with my education(Balchor in Psychology and Law) but why me? 100s of people work with us she's acquired a large fortune and always uses it to help people but she did it without my consent it sounds ungrateful like she's done so much for me the whole not telling me is what's sticking with she just paid for it like 4000 is nothing I cant wrap my head around it am I the asshole here? is it wrong I'm assuming something bad is attached to it