Basically. So we were technically “Nothing deep” or whatever, I mean I comforted him, almost by force honestly. We would chat on and off for the past 5 ish years and he would pretend that he was interested in building a relationship with me but yet be an asshole so I never really took it seriously, but I wasn’t expecting him to have a secret side obsession (yes obsession, this doesn’t seem like just an interest) with a whole different woman. I mean wow, I feel like corpse bride, “I’m not the other woman, she’s the other woman” Lol, but I am the other woman. He said that she was there for him in dark times and I was so confused because where was I then? She is married. Yet I’m being crucified for telling him about my first ever almost-boyfriend. He just makes her seem like such an Angel because apparently she gets cheated on. I truly am not into guys like him but I have no one to admit to that my feelings got hurt when I once again felt like my worth was sht. When he first told me that to be honest I had thoughts rushing in my head like I just bet that she looks a certain way that must be his actual type compared to me, because there is just no way you would be okay with being lead on as a not too rich man with health issues by a MARRIED upper class woman pretending to be so innocent, but what married MUSLIM woman asks to meet your parents like she’s going to ask for your hand. That’s so inappropriate and it makes them both a pile of perverts. But I guess her husband is busy cheating on her and that’s why he can’t keep tabs on what his wife is up to. It sucks feeling like someone’s past time because I didn’t deserve that, I was seeking to at least be seen as a friend, and yet I was never even given that respect. I had only ever been genuine and sympathetic with him. The most offensive part of this to me though, is all the times he insulted me financially, as if that woman is any better than me. Money can never buy class, that’s for sure. And I am about to turn 20, so call me stupid all you want for interacting with a man like this but most of this connection was from my younger more incoherent years. But anyways,