We met in college 2 years ago. I He is on the asexual/aromantic spectrum, I'm not but I just don't feel comfortable being in a traditional relationship. I graduated this year and went to grad school while he is still in our college town working at the university. We are long distance and I'm going to visit him for thanksgiving break. I'm working towards going no contact with both parents and he is aware of this but not the main reason why.

Basically they had unsuccessfully tried to groom me for sexual abuse, and then high school I developed schizophrenia symptoms and they told me that the voices were real and I should sleep in their bed to be safe. You can probably guess what happened.

I am currently in therapy as is he, but I'm anxious that telling him will trigger him as he received anger management counseling in elementary school and I'm scared he's going to have violent thoughts.