For the last few weeks, I’ve been seeing an older, married guy. Being with him has been such an amazing experience. He’s incredibly attentive and just seems to get what I need in a way that no one else does. We were so dirty and rough the first week we met, but then after the election I felt really depressed. I thought about ending things with him, but he was just so supportive and understanding about everything. He said we could just be friends. He has been nothing but patient and kind. We have met up a few times in the past two weeks, and not once did he pressure me into doing anything. There were a couple of times where all we did was sit together in his car while he held me. No expectations about anything. It was so comforting.

When we go out together in public, he is the perfect gentleman. Sometimes, he is even a bit fatherly towards me, which can be comforting. He opens doors for me, places his hand on the small of my back when we walk, calls me pet names, and buys me things to wear for him. He’s mature, kind, and one of the best lovers I’ve ever had. When we get intimate, which we have been several times, he doesn’t hold back. He is so confident and that just draws me in. He knows how to push my boundaries, when to take control, and when to be gentle. He makes me feel so alive. He completely claims me in those moments and it is absolutely incredible. I haven't felt like this is such a long time. It is so much more than just being desired, like he sees the real me and makes me feel like I belong to him. It feels so naughty and sexy. I just can’t resist him. It is as if I can completely let go and be myself with him.