Years ago, I was married and we had one child together. He was an abusive father and he treated us both like really bad.

Over time, the stress he cause seemed to destroy my self-esteem and I did not feel happy being married to him and I felt desperate for affection and someone to be with that made me happy.

I realize marriage is a bond and I always remained faithful to him. But, the situation continued to get worse over time and then I met a black guy who was very nice to me. He treated me respectfully and had a way to make me laugh.

One day, He asked me out and "long story short, After a few secret dates, We had intercourse and as the days and weeks went on, we continued to meet in secret, I felt bad in a way for what I did. But, I realized how happy I was with him. I started falling in love with him and knew I had to tell my husband. I was scared, but I eventually told him and he did not really seem to care. In fact, He wanted to meet him so, I called my bf and he came over and met my husband. My husband asked Him, If he wanted her. 'He replied, Yes, I am happy with her. My husband then asked me, " Do you want to be with me or him? "I replied, I want to be with him. My husband said, he wants me to be happy and should be with him.

The three of us had a good conversation that night and everything was peaceful. It felt good knowing that I got this secret off my chest. and my husband seemed to be somewhat supportive of the situation. and allowed us to see each other until I moved in with my Bf.

We eventually divorced and I much happier with my life with my Bf. Remember, Its never to late to start over!