So myself 19TF (Trans Fem) and my partner, 21F, who I’ll call M have been together for about a year, a little more than, and I’m not sure I’m sexually attracted to her and I don’t know what to do. I love this girl so so so much, and I’m physically attracted to her, but when we have sex, I just can’t stay hard and find it hard to cum, from oral, or penetration, any of it and it’s been getting worse, I won’t be able to start hard for long or we’ll stop and I’ll use a toy on her so she can at least cum. We were open for a bit but closed and never did anything with anyone because she’s demisexual (The only thing she said she’s comfortable with is an anonymous fuck like being blind folded and fucked while I’m there making sure they don’t take it too far) and we wanted to figure our relationship out and ultimately decided we wouldn’t reopen (Mostly her saying she didn’t really want to and me being content with it because y’know, I love her) but it’s not been fun, her drive is significantly higher than mine and she wants to play and be submissive to me and specifically wants me in her when I don’t really enjoy it much anymore and I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to break up nor do I wanna just keep letting her down. She’s a bit on the bigger side and I know if I say “I’m not sexually attracted to you” then she’ll take it hard because she’s got a lot of issues with body image. Any advice for what to do?