When dating I want a man who will give me lots of attention. If he doesn’t then I don’t see the point of having him in my life. Like if he takes days to reply to a text he’s gotta go. Unless he’s unconscious in a dark alley somewhere there’s very little reason that he would take days to reply he just doesn’t want to. The only reason I would be ok with him taking days to reply is because he told me before like for instance he said “hey I’m going on a trip and I won’t be able to talk for a few days until I get back” that would be fine. But if he drops off the face of the earth out of no where for a few days and then comes back like nothing happened I consider that disrespectful. Plus waiting around for days for a text stresses me out and when someone stresses me out I have the strong desire to get away from them. What I crave from a man is a man I can be at peace with and feel at rest with him. So the last thing I want from a man is stress because I have I enough problems. That just makes him a liability. Plus in the early stages of dating them giving me attention is the only thing I’m getting out of it. So if they take that away I’m not getting anything out of it