I know that sounds horrible but I miss this girl a lot, we were friends and fell out but I’m apparently still in love with this woman. I liked her for a long time and still don’t know why I’m so drawn to her. I thought I was over her but these past couple weeks she’s all that’s been on my mind. It’s not fair to my girlfriend that I can’t give her the same love I want to give this girl and it’s not fair to myself so I think it’s in my best interest to break up with her. I also feel like I’ve been slowly feeling less attracted to my girlfriend anymore and slowly starting to see her as a friend. I’m not as inclined to physically intimate with her anymore and I find myself getting very annoyed at her sometimes and cringing at things she does sometimes. I feel bad for it and always apologize to her afterwards. I’ve been trying to see her as a lover and see if this is actually what I want and I think i’ve made my mind up. She’s an amazing woman but probably not want I want in a lover. Looking back, I’m starting to think that maybe I liked her because she reminded me of the other girl but I realize they aren’t the same person. I’ve been working up the courage to arrange a time and tell her that the time has come. I know it’ll suck but it’s the right thing to do. I do think she is an amazing friend and would love to be friends again if she would be up for it. Does all this make me a wrong person?