Me 27M and my wife 26F have a wierd dynamic. She is a confident and bold woman, takes most of our decisions and our daily life activities are planned by her. She decides and take charge. But when it comes to the sexual aspect of our marriage we become the opposites of eachother. I am the dominant one now and she is a submissive when it comes to sex. Also we are a very kinky couple and enjoy some kinks like CNC, DDLG, her being degraded and humiliated, rough sex and a lot of spanking. I am almost always the dominant one during sex my wife is a submissive.

Now comes the weird part, although we both enjoy this dynamic but sometimes, I just want my wife to be the dominant one and just pamper me like a mommy. Like one scenario which I would love for her to do is for her to take my head in her lap, give me her boobs to suck on while she is saying comforting words and giving me a very slow relaxing handjob with one hand and a gentle head massage with the other. There are some other similar scenarios like that in my head too.

I haven't talked to her yet about these feelings. One because she is a very submissive woman when it comes to sex. Two she has always seen me like this musculine daddy like person who is there to ravish her during sex. Three I don't know what will be her reaction and maybe she will find me less attractive after.