But it's not quite what you'd think. I'll start by saying, if I'm in a relationship I'm 100% committed to my partner and would never cheat on them, never have: never will.

That being said, I absolutely LOVE to hook up with women cheating on their significant other, especially if they're married. I know this makes me a pretty shitty person, but I love bringing a woman pleasure in a situation where she feels unwanted or undesired. The risk of getting caught is also an exciting aspect to this.

I have only done this a handful of times, a few with fellow redditors. I find it fun and intriguing to hear the lies the women tell their significant other so that they can get away for a bit to have the affair. One in particular, said that her husband tracked her phone, so she came up with an elaborate "girl's day out" excuse, and at one point I was sitting right next to her as she spoke to her husband on the phone as she lied to him, all the while I was running my hand up and down her body. .

Twice, the woman I was having sex with, would tell me to (and I apologize for the vulgarity) "cum in my pussy and claim it as yours, take away what my husband owns" (or something to that effect) which has always made me wonder if there is a feeling of power for the woman cheating, in cucking her significant other, even if he is unaware. Also, I would be lying if I said hearing a woman say that didn't get me really wound up.

Like I said, I know I'm no Saint and am potentially ruining relationships and lives, but the way I see it, it at least my justification, is if it isn't me, it'll be someone else. At least with me, while yes I'm getting something out of this, my focus is always on my partner having a great time, to fill in what they've been missing. Every woman that has had an affair with me, has always said (and for what it's worth at face value) that they love their partner and don't want to leave them, they are just looking for the physical aspect that was missing. Maybe others can shed light on this if it's true or just a lie for comfort...

Regardless, I absolutely love the physical and also the mental aspect of it all. I find it extremely fascinating and will likely continue doing it.