Found this sub and thought it would be a good place to offload! I just moved to the area for uni and thought it would be worth going out by myself to bars just to try and mingle to meet new people. It seemed like only older guys would come to chat with me and I got on really well with one guy who was in his 30's. After a while He asked me if I wanted to go outside to smoke, I said yes even though I don't smoke and at this point he started getting way more physical. He asked if I wanted to get a drink at his and I went along with it. We had a drink and chatted before we hooked up. I stayed at his over night and now I'm just wondering if I should be avoiding meeting people like this in the future.