I feel like this is more normal than my brain is turning it out to be. I’ve been with my girlfriend for over a year now and I love her more than anything. We have a great relationship. It does have an interesting dynamic where she does get turned on by the thought of me with another woman, however that doesn’t necessarily apply here.

My coworker has been with the company for the last year and a half. She herself has a long term boyfriend (more than 8 years or so if I heard her correctly). We have a great working relationship and get along great. But, I find that I’m also attracted to her. I find myself wanting to eat lunch together or I get excited when we have to work on projects together. I wouldn’t ever make a move to mess anything up or be irresponsible, just one of those things. However, I did have a romantic dream about her the other night.

Anyhow, not really looking for advice, more just treating this as a means to get it off my chest. Thanks for reading ✌🏻