Our sex life has been struggling. We have 2 kids, 2 years old and 9 months. For probably a year now the sex has been near zero for us. On average it’s 2 times a month or less.

I expressed to her at some point that I would think it’s hot if she slept with another man and then came home and we had crazy sex. This happens as planned one time. Now this coming weekend she has plans to do an “overnight” with another guy. This I’m fine with but at the time she plan to get home we will have to go straight into our day and I won’t get my end of the deal. We won’t have a chance till way later that night and I’m sure she’ll be tired from getting fucked all night the night before.

Why is she so attracted and willing to sleep with other men but not me?