So my half sister from my mom's side, has a kid who I pretty much grew up with, hes 6 years younger than I, and I adore him. One of my older full blooded brothers had a kid, and I do not care for him. I mean I would be sad if he died or got sick.... but other than that I dont care to even interact with him.

My nephews father ( who is my full blood brother who is 4 years older than me), sexually molested me when I was 9, and threatened to tell my parents that I had done something wrong. So until I was 13 and learned what assault/rape was, I didnt think about it. It affected me negatively through out my teen years ( self cutting, drug use, drinking). I finally had the courage to tell my parents when I was 22. They were pissed for a couple days at him but then this was brushed under the rug and still tended to my brother as if he was a king.

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Finally 3 years ago he moved out because he was having a kid. I know its not the kids fault that his father is a piece of shit, but I cant help but not like him. Every time I see the kid, I see my brother and I get annoyed. My parents love this kid because its their first full blooded grandkid? Yes ive gone to a therapist who told me to forgive and forget, but its really hard to do it when there was no apology or any sign of remorse. I always find a way to not be home when my nephew comes over because I just dont want to deal with him or my brother.

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