I had a lovely conversation with the mods of r/Askwomen this morning. A commenter complained about men being quiet during sex. I along with other commenters tried to address it and offer some insight. My post got unmediated pulled for derailing. I messaged the mod to ask what and to talk about it and got shut down because I made personal. I rebuffed their denial with a deeper further explanation that my post wasn’t about me and tried explaining that it was about a wider understanding of why a lot of men are quiet during sex. I was not antagonistic and tried to foster polite discourse until she/they/it started gatekeeping and being directly and personally combative with me. I called them out on it, albeit with a bit of snarky ribbing but nothing bad, I didn’t even cuss!
Then I got a 90 Day ban. Then they loved the post thread. I addressed that I didn’t feel that was fair…and asked to see a manager.
That got me permabanned. I turned my frown upside down, put on my smile, and expressed my sincerest gratitude to them. That got me 28 days muted to the mods…am I the asshole?

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