I saw a post on here about looking at lgbt media and stuff and so I started bingeing some shows and then I was like ‘I wanna watch something more like educational’.

I ducked over to Alayna Joy’s YT and watched an interview with her and Stevie Boebi (who I’d never heard of before yesterday) and like I still had so many doubts but it made so much more sense. I already don’t really remember it a lot(stress brain things) but it was kind of like because of how hard the binary and masc/femme thing is so hard-wired into us and I had so many ‘aha’ moments, especially after watching a super cute show about gay guys but realised a women wrote it so the characters I was falling in love with were still from the lens of a woman lol.

Just living outside of the binary or even like flowing within it without being strictly on one side is hard to grasp. I don’t know if you guys have read and heard like relationship stuff where it’s like almost a rule that one person has to be on one ‘side’ and the other person on the other ‘side’.

Does anyone have good examples of shows or something where it’s more fluid or without these binary rules?

I still feel like even in shows and movies there’s like a lean of a more masc and femme character even if same sex.