Have been out for years but still struggle to know when I’m feeling attraction

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I was comphet til I was 24 and then came out and have pretty much only been with women since then. It’s now been 12 years of very short lived relationships that I pull away from because I can’t tell if I’m attracted to the woman or just tricking myself like I used to do with men. The only times I know I am definitely attracted to someone is when they are 110% unavailable.

I know this overlaps with attachment issues, but has anyone else experienced not being able to trust themselves to know when they are attracted or forcing themselves?

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