Ok so little context before me(20m)and my gf(22f) met she had identified as bisexual and then as a lesbian (i dnt know the term but she said she would have sex with men but not date them) we've talked about this and she says she thought she didn't like men but she just didn't like the men she'd been with and then she met me and fell in love, it was great she tells me i'm the best sexual partner she's ever had, we were very sexually active in the honeymoon phase she said she never felt this way with anyone, she also tells me she's the happiest she's been with anyone with me and that she thinks she can't find someone better than me, there's romance in the relationship, and i've asked her if she feels more attraction to women than to men and she told me no but, our sex life has slowed down a lot, like we go through a month of nothing and then we have sex like 3/4 times in a week but then another month sometimes more of nothing. She tells me that's just how she is and that she has not entered relationships before because she knew it would be a problem. Her ex boyfriends used to force her to have sex before so I never do anything like that maybe to a bit of an extreme level because I'm kinda scared of initiating anything because i dont want her to feel uncomfortable, also i'm on antidepressants so my sex drive has gone down a lot. She's usually the one initiating things when it happens but sometimes when i try and she's not in the mood i feel insecure. I just want to know if it's possible that she is experiencing comphet with me because she doesn't want anything sexual usually? I have a lot of anxiety and relationship ocd so i'm kinda spiralling because of this.