Posting to get it off me chest. I am fortunate to come from and extremely accepting background. All my immediate family and friends are very accepting, and the area I grew up is as well. Still my family is pretty reserved about stuff, idk if is a bad thing but it is what it is.

I had not bothered coming out to my family, I know if would have if/ when I had a same sex partner but don't know if I would have before then.

Recently I "came out" to my closest friend by dropping hints until they asked. This friend decided to tell their mom who is good friends with my mom. Their mom then apparently told my mom. I get that their family is the opposite of mine, very open and talkative, but still. I am not very angry, but I do feel it is pretty sad that two people decided to put me to someone else.

I don't know if it makes sense to be upset as it will not change anything, and my parents haven't even brought it up yet.