Aight so back a few years ago I thought I was merely bisexual. More accurately I was Pansexual but my family's feble Christian minds can't handle that so I stuck with the easy one.

About 30 days ago. I started mtf hormones. When I came out as bisexual my aunt told me she accepted me but I should hide it from grandma. My dad kinda gets it but not really and has not made much progress no matter how many times I try to explain it. Thinks. I'm. Going to choose one day. Regardless gonna be hard to hide tits on a dude.

My dad and his mother the grand mother in this story are both textbook narcicists and believe only they can be correct. I have tried to show them my perspective many times and made no progress.

I want to tell them to just go away it's not my fault they are bigots. They keep calling me and it's triggering as fuck. None of them will accept me they made that very clear in the past based on actions I have observed towards my siblings for past transgressions.

I'm 28 I've lived independently for 10 years now and rarely needed help from my parents in that time. The last year of my life has been the happiest because they have not been around.

Should I tell them "I'm trans stop being a bigot or fuck off" or "fuck off" that's really the advice I would like to ask for.