I've always been a firm soft autumn with soft blue eyes with a few green streaks, fair but warm skin that tans several shades darker in the summer, and soft brown hair that gets warm highlights in the summer. When I was 15, my hair started going grey due largely to vitiligo and by 30 ( I'm now 33) I was mostly silver. It's now very steely.

I also now have increasingly large patches of skin with absolutely no melanin that are quite cool, while the rest of my skin still has warm tones particularly in the summer. On my wrists, one has green tinged veins and the other blue.

I'm really not sure what to do with myself now. What happens when a soft autumn goes steely grey? I feel like everything clashes with me now.