About me and about you?

Hey there and welcome to my Reddit page. I’m a 29m dom on ESMD

Recently my life has taken a change and it seems I’m back on the hunt for a friend, a play mate, a submissive partner, and someone who understands the assignment

I’m about 5’7 I weight 150 Rocking the dad bod and getting into the gym to continue my self care and transformation after loosing 82lb in a year I have kids and a situationship that would not involve you.

I have been in the d/s dynamic and lifestyle for over ten years with one partner and after a while I feel it’s time to get back in the saddle and do what I do best 😏

I enjoy many forms of play and control without being controlling of your personal life. I am looking for a 24/7 dynamic and I’m ok with online and hope that in time we get to meet. So being local is preferred but traveling a few hours isn’t an issue

Some of my kinks/play styles are - [ ] Anal and all forms anal play - [ ] Stuffing, stretching, gaping - [ ] Throat training/gag training - [ ] Posture training - [ ] Denial/orgasm control - [ ] Butt plugs, dildos, vibes and etc. - [ ] Whips, belts, ropes, collars and chains - [ ] Restraints and restriction edging - [ ] Daily tasks and interaction - [ ] (Not immediate) 24/7 dynamic or lifestyle. Eventually if things go right it could lead to more than just a lifestyle but an actual relationship - [ ] TPE CNC and other forms of power transfer

The type of sub I’m looking for

Being that I’m 29 a dominant and involved in the swinger community I have no judgement on age but I’ll start here. Ideally my good girl would be the same height or shorter. I want nothing more than to pick you up on my shoulders and eat that snack between those thighs at any moment. Your are independent in terms of finances and responsibilities outside of our dynamic and relationship. I have no problem managing our lifestyle and the equipment and things needed. It can’t be all for you to cover. Willing to travel and be available for longer stays. Red hair or brunette to the front. Squishy thighs are a thing ya know butt play is a major part. So be aware your hole and holes will be used. And above all have a willingness to try and learn and grow in the lifestyle.