I found some sexting to random women on this forum chat when he is high and I’m asleep. He says he wasn’t in his right mind but I don’t buy it. Saw some weird porn too. He plays it off saying he was just bored. It’s weird because he talks about things I didn’t even know he was into, and we’ve been together for 11 years. Also is it common for coke heads to not be able to get a boner for me? Is it the drugs? Is this acceptable? He also has lied about his usage several times. I don’t get horny when I’m high but do men turn into sex freaks? I just don’t understand what the appeal is of talking to strangers on here. Plus he never told me, I found them on my own. Where to go? Dm if you have insight or post here, whatever is more comfortable. Thanks.