we started at like 11pm and it’s 3am now. are tolerances aren’t like they used to be so it’s not always as enjoyable. we’ve been taking breaks for a few months tho. anyway because of tolerance he usually doesn’t feel super talkative anymore. but for me it’s done the opposite. it used to make me more extroverted but now it makes me too extroverted sometimes and i understand that can be annoying. so i’ve been trying to pace myself and be super chill this time which i have been. i’ve been trying to give him his space and not talk too much or too loud. but he still doesn’t want to do anything because he’s been feeling really anxious. which i get. but it’s been hours and usually he’ll at least clean with me a little or something but he like doesn’t even want to sit with me he’s just been playing games on his phone. i’m trying to be understanding but i’ve waited two months for this and this is going to be the last time we do it together for a really long time what do i do to help? i keep asking if there’s any way we could meet in the middle or anything he would feel comfortable doing with me but he doesn’t want to do anything 😞