I want to share my experience of M4' and about me. I'm 25M, 5 7', Straight, Single, south Asian and still a virgin. I don't drink alcohol, I don't smoke, I don't do weed or drugs and not planning on doing any of the above in the future either.

I was wondering if I should visit a social club, for a while. Then I googled did some research and came to a conclusion to visit M4. So I arrived to M4' at 3.10 pm for the play party event. I planned to stay until 7pm. There was barely anyone and I'm the first to arrive. They gave me a tour and made me comfortable. I was waiting on the library and then an old cute couple came and they had oral fun. I didn't watch it cuz I felt shy. Then an hour later I saw a girl with nice lingerie with a guy, he came to me and said if you were wearing a tower she would've fucked you (I was dressed at that time). Then I immediately changed to towel and she invited me to the private room with this guy. Then she said ' I'll give you a BJ but only with a condom'. I said I'm a virgin and she said that's even better and helped me stay calm and told me the boundaries and gave me consent on what to do and what not to do. I did what she asked and she did a great job but I was holding my ejaculation for some reason. Then she left with the guy. That's my first BJ in life. I felt pretty lucky. But I felt sad that I couldn't offer her anything since she said she's the only one who's going to do stuff and not want me to do anything. I still played with tits and spanked her ass lightly after I asked her whether I can do that to her. She said yes.

After that I waited for hours and no one showed up except few men. Then I left the place around 6.45pm. It made sense since it's Christmas Eve and it's not even 7pm yet. But overall I would say it's a 10/10 experience for me. I managed to get a BJ and lost half of my virginity I guess lol.

I asked the staff about busiest days and she said Friday nights and Saturdays are busy. Since Saturday nights are only for couples, I want to try this again on this Friday. As the previous threads mentioned I'll be focusing on hygiene and building conversations. Even though I'm straight I'm okay with couples and trans person as long as I feel comfortable talking with them which I guess they will be. Can't wait to lose my virginity.

I'll be very happy if I made some good friends to. Feel free to advise me and join me if you wish.. sorry for the long post. Merry Christmas Everyone ✨🎄