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Recently the following gameplay has caught my attention:
- Solo dude invites me to play
- Dudes asks me to suck his dick
- When I ask him to fuck me, kiss me, at least touch me (I'm not even asking them to eat my pussy because that's a dead end anyway), they dodge the question, or answer something implying they don't fuck other people at all.
So, they're just there to get blowjobs, it seems?
Why?
Solo ladies, have any of you experienced something similar? Or is it me? Am I ugly?
Yesterday, I swear, by the end of the night I'd sucked 5 different cocks, 4 of them with a different reason not to fuck me. Many only tell me that after finishing in my mouth, of course.
This has become more and more frequent.
I usually don't give BJs on a first encounter unless we've done more first, like he has already fucked me or eaten me and never to completion. They can finish in me with a condom on or on me. I don't let guys cum in my mouth unless they are a regular partner. Although I've never had anyone have me suck him off and not give anything else in return, unless it was already organized (and not at the club). Just have to be clear about what you are looking for because yes I think a lot of guys would accept the BJ and give nothing back if presented with the opportunity. I also would accept being eaten and give nothing back if that was an option.
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Not a bitch move. I just say I'm looking for reciprocation and if they're not that's cool but the play ends. You gotta know your worth girl. Ultimately you are choosing who you share YOUR body with and anyone who gets to be a part of that is lucky. Sometimes it takes a mindset change away from validating men to valuing yourself. I could go on, but I will stop there lol