Hi all, Not typical question here. I would like to ask dominant men how/where did you find you submissive girl? I would like to ask submissive girls where/how did you find dominant man. Either it is online or irl relationship, I'm interested in any protips to do it.

I tried searching on few subreddits like: -fapdeciders (the issue are a lot of scams/bots, Catfishes, accounts that just answer few messages and leave the chat, accounts not answering me at all, people leaving during the session without notifying that they will do it and never coming back, people deleting their accounts)

-femaleorgasmdenial /betawomen /churchofmen - seems more legit in matter there are more girls willing to show pictures and older accounts (so it looks like there are real women on other side), however it seems most of them already has Dom's. If they don't have Dom's it seems they are not interested in finding someone. As I tried few times writing to them (or pointing that I'm looking for a sub while giving tasks/instructions). Always without much response

bdsmpersonals - also I tried to start a chat with that people, but also without much response ratio

A bit about myself, what I'm looking for

I'm a mix of gently and strict dom. I can enforce rules, but when they are followed I'm nice and want to reward a sub. Of course tasks/instructions will become harder as time pass by, but I don't want to push them too hard

Kinks: orgasm control, tease, edge and denial, humiliation, degradation (but not extreme ones) praise if girl followed instructions. Spanking, nipple clamps, pain in general (but not extreme one). Piss or bathroom control, but it's just a nice add-on, I don't mind without them

Limits: scat, blood, vomit, generally extreme and filthy staff

Let me know if you have any protips, advices to find proper people. Where/how to find them both online and irl, especially if you can suggest something in Poland

P.S. if there is any girl interested in me being her Dom, feel free to reach out too