On paper I have just about everything going good for me. good job, no debt, fat bank account, 6ft, fit, nice, kind, caring, good faith, confidence and all that other good stuff.

But I can't get anyone my own age to even so much as saying hello back, not online, not in person, nothing. as you can imagine i got nothing to go on and i'm rather lost here... The people who know me don't get it ether, by their accounts I should have been paired off years ago but I haven't even had a date in 4 years.

i'm really starting to believe God wants me to be alone, but I know I can't handle that so I have to be doing something wrong? or are women and younger people in general just paranoid and antisocial? for context i never had a friend that wasn't 10 years older then me as everyone my age can't seem to hold a conversation let alone say hi back. any advice?

edit, please don't tell me to just pray or seek God, my relationship with God isn't the problem... sorry i had to put that there, but thats always seems to be the defaco response to any christian thats struggling with anything... 😆