Im 28M. Have been a Christian all my life and was brought up catholic.

To me the whole concept of sex doesnt seem that important. It shouldn't be a determining factor of a relationship.

There are many other ways to have a happy relationship without it.

Yes I want to have sex one day, But I want it to be with someone I truly love and am close with. Not just to test "Sexual Compatibility" (Thats a stupid term in itself IMO)

I have spoken to half a dozen other Christians on dating apps over the last year or so, our communications have dropped off the moment the discussion about sex before marriage gets raised.

Im having to explicitly state this now on my profile so I dont match with others who arent willing to wait.

It doesnt help that I dont really attend church wholehardedtly and really should try to expand my christian social life. But yeah im working on that

Its hard :/