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My 'best friend' did not once contact me during my cancer treatment because she was too busy with her kid.
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We grew up together, like sisters. She has always been spoiled by her parents and now she gets spoiled by her husband who is the breadwinner and cooks her dinner. She never had a job and the only thing she does is caring for her child.

When i got my diagnosis, she seemed willing to support me. When i asked her if she wanted to come over, she told me that an 1-hour drive back and forth is not good for her child. She promised to be there for me as much as possible online.

My treatment started and i never heared a thing from her again. Two weeks ago my treatment finished and i am feeling pretty crappy and am in a lot of pain. Guess who texts me? Yup. 'Hey how are things?' That's all. Not even an apology that she left me hanging just when i needed some support.

I am mad and to be honest i don't know what to do. I get so frustrated with her always clinging to her kid, who gets raised to live without a backbone.

Sorry i just needed to vent. I am not sure if i should even text her back.

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