i'm so tired.

i have this family member. she's not immediate, but rather pretty far extended. we see each other at thanksgiving and interact pretty much entirely on facebook.

this morning she made a post about how she misses having a baby in the family, as the youngest cousin is in middle school now. i'm the oldest cousin, and in a serious relationship with a man, so she tags me with the "hey @goddessmarina you're almost mommy age!"

cue shudder going down my spine at the thought of being called mommy. eugh.

i played nice, though. i commented back that no thanks, me and boyfriend really aren't interested in kids. we've got a cat and we're looking at getting a tarantula and that's enough for us.

then, just about fifteen minutes ago now, she comments back to me, and i copy/paste quote: "Well, accidents happen ;)"

the irony being that my boyfriend is trans, so no, they really don't.

besides the irony of her not knowing we can't physically make children, there's something so creepy about her commenting like that. i feel gross. i feel like she's reducing me to an incubator so she can enjoy having a baby around when she'd only even see it once a year. she's so concerned about my boyfriend nutting in me on accident or a condom breaking and it's just !!! ew

i'm sure if i say anything else i'll just get bingoed

sorry this is purely a rant post but i feel really really uncomfortable lmao