No, I don't have children of my own. I was happily sterilized last summer by a wonderful doctor from the list provided here.

I am my grandparents' caregiver. They're both 90 and their health is declining. I cook, clean, run errands, provide minor medical treatments (like wound dressing). I take them to their appointments. I pay their bills on time. I help them with church obligations. You name it - I probably do it.

My grandparents have three daughters, one being my mom. She does help but she works a lot, so she's not home. My other two aunts don't help at all. One lives a few hours away and survives just to cause drama - no one wants to be around her.

My other aunt is a Neo Nazi and only comes to visit when she wants to complain about 'the Radical Left,' and is the biggest hypocrite I've ever met.

My aunts only care about the inheritance when my grandparents are gone. They've never lifted a finger to help with anything - complaining that it's not done correctly in addition.

End of life care is crazy expensive - so I won't allow my grandparents to be admitted to any retirement homes. But I'm exhausted - I am disabled due to some neurological issues. I am not medically cleared to work outside the home and am juggling school full time.

So, to anyone who thinks their adult children will help them out and that's why they should have kids, they're in for a rude awakening...