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Update: Changing Stances
Hi everyone! I have a small update to my previous post (post with same title). However, I wanted to start by thanking you all for the support and advice on my previous post. It helped me process a lot of my own thoughts and make me not feel so crazy or guilty.
So, after being away visiting my family for a few days, my husband and I talked when I got home yesterday. We both had a few hard days of processing what we had discussed and talking it over with our close friends.
Our discussion went very well and came from a very logical point on both ends. Neither of us is mad at the other. We talked through all the possibilities and we came to a mutual game plan. He said he wants to get fertility tested to see if he is even able to have children (he has now made an appointment for this for next week). If he is fertile, our plan is to attend couples counseling to process this together and make the best decision for both of us moving forward.
We both agree this is not something either of us should have to compromise on. And although we love each other, we deserve to find our happiness in life with our fundamental dreams intact. We agreed if it comes to divorce, although it will be hard, we will work through it together and be completely civil.
I’m honestly ecstatic with how this has progressed so far. And although divorce is a high probability, I’m confident in the fact we love each other, don’t want to hurt one another, and that we want what’s best for both of us.
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