I'm 28 and live with my parents and husband. We have the funds to move out, but my parents are disabled so we help out in exchange for cheaper rent.

Yesterday my mom told me I need to give her a grandchild or I need to get out. I'm ready to completely cut them out of my life, but we're all going to sit down and talk this week. My husband is more level headed than I am.

She is far from a perfect mom. She keeps trying to haggle with me. "I'll baby sit" "I'll do most of the care" "I'll give you money"

I barely trust her with my dog. She keeps feeding him things he's allergic to. I would never trust her with a baby.

I'm completely thrown. She's not a great person, but I never expected this. I told her if I leave I'm gone forever. I really hope she considers this. I just needed to vent.