First of all, please go to a place that you feel comfortable with. If anything feels off about the doctors and nurses you don't have to stay. Secondly, my experience was a very joyful one. It was surgical. I found out I was pregnant the day prior before and the condom had broken week prior. I had an appointment within 24 hours and it taken care of the very next day. They gave me an IV anesthetic so I was not completely conscious even though I was awake and not passed out. It wasn't very long and afterwards I was groggy from the anesthesia but pain wise was pretty minimal. It was less than a bad period. Light bleeding for maybe a couple of days after but emotionally felt great. I did not have the emotional crash that others have mentioned but maybe that has to do with how long one is pregnant. What I did notice and what prompted me to take the pregnancy test was that my areolas looked darker and there was a ring around it. I thought that was interesting and very little is talked about it. I also had an IUD inserted during the same procedure. And I have been on an IUD since for the past 16 years or so. You will be fine and the idea is more scary than otherwise. I've had dental work more painful.