After having a child who was born Caesarean, getting a hypothyroid diagnosis and life in general, let's just say I am not as comfortable being nude as I used to be.

I just randomly came across this video and thought it would be a good one to share here. (Ignore the title) Not for it's erotic levels, honestly she seems to be faking some of her excitement, but because she looks beautiful. She doesn't "gross me out". She is not worried about her weight or her "tummy shelf" or her scar. And she is enjoying herself and so is her partner. The video also has a 99% upvote rating which tells me everyone else watching it agrees with me.

I can tell myself 'I don't care' and 'I deserve pleasure', and I am good at faking confidence on occasion, but it's not real. Seeing videos like this help make it real for me. And maybe it will for you too.

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