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Hey there! 😊25 y/o female from the western suburbs. Have had a few Reddit encounters before, but nothing exactly what I was expecting.

I'm looking for someone who I can have a friendship with that will make me feel comfortable, and also have that sexual chemistry. We could hang out platonically and do things such as exploring various suburbs; play video games together; watch movies or tv shows (or whatever is on Netflix/Hulu), and whenever we have the chance we could have some fun exploring each other. I'm really looking for a FWB with the exclusivity of a LTR, and if things become more serious in the future I am open to exploring that. Being with someone that makes me feel comfortable is very important because things may turn romantic and end up as an actual relationship.

Not looking for a ONS/NSA affair; not interested in anyone looking for something seasonal, or anyone that is in the area temporarily whether it's for work or travel. Not looking to join a couple either. If that applies to you, sorry, but I'm not the one for you.

If you're expecting to fuck me on the first meeting, you might as well scroll to the next post and find someone else. I would like our first few meetings to be platonic and just getting to really know each other before getting sexual. I will also not be having sex until my mind is made up and I have confirmed who I want as my long-term partner.

Because I actually want to meet face-to-face and be friends, I want someone nearby so it's not too much of a hassle driving for either of us to drive to the other for a visit (location and distance limits can be discussed).

I do believe that attraction is important, so if we both find each other attractive then great! If one of us isn't attracted to the other well...c'est la vie...nothing personal.🤷🏾‍♀️

Not super experienced, but I know what kinks I like and am open to trying other ones as well; I do have limits though.

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Traits I'd like from a potential partner:

• DDF
• SINGLE (idc if your SO is neglecting you, I'm not touching you either)
• Between 23-30 y/o
• Hygienic
• Affectionate (love a good cuddle and/or hug🤗)
• Able to occasionally host
• Located in the burbs (only posting here for the suburbanite lurkers)
• Wanting to go out to local events
• Kink-compatible (can be discussed between us)
• More of a sexual dominant, and:
• Monogamous

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About me:

• On the short end (I'm 5'2")
• DDF
• A bit nerdy/dorky...at least that's how my family describes me
• Curvy
• Sexually submissive
• Typically easygoing/chill
• Definitely shy/reserved, but I open up once I start feeling comfortable around someone
• Can be a bit clingy when I get really comfortable (trying to work on this unless you like that)

I'm not too concerned with non-sexual interests as those will be easier to find common ground. 🙂In my free time you can find me binge-watching new shows, trying to catch up on my reading, or hanging out with friends.

Let's talk and get to know each other! This journey may get exhaustive and a bit frustrating depending on how many people reach out, so your patience will be extremely appreciated!

No random, sketchy meetups. I don't want to be your "dirty little secret". If it becomes evident that you're only wanting to see me or call me at night, but refuse to hang out in the daytime then au revoir! I'm not going to be your booty call.

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Sorry for the literal wall of text..apparently had more to say than I anticipated. But!...if you've made it this far and my post interested you, send me a DM! 😁Tell me a little about yourself; I like messages that have a bit of personality rather than just "hey", or "sup". Also, what's your favorite book?? I'd like to expand my collection! I have my chats turned off, so if you try to send me one and you don't receive a reply that's why. Comments are disabled here (idk why), so if you only leave a comment here and don't reach out to me then I won't know that you're attempting to connect with me!