Okay... here it goes
I'm an overeducated liberal who believes in paying high taxes.
I'm also chicken shit - I've tried picking up women at bars, but am always fearful that somehow my wife will find out and therefore never follow through.
So now at 40, I'm looking to try and solve this by finding someone else who is married and too scared to have an affair. I don't want to change my situation or yours but would love to talk about what benefits an affair could have on our respective marriages.
A couple of my own thoughts on the matter, after years and years and years of marriage things get stale - this I feel is normal. But, after all those years you build something that you don't want to tear down. So, perhaps adding a little piece on the side might be enough to satisfy those desires.
Now for the long term part - I'm really looking for someone who wants to put in the time on this. An emotional connection makes the sex so much better - it takes time to learn to communicate with someone new - and the sex get better once you break through those barriers. So i'm not looking for a one night stand - in fact - i'm looking for a connection first.
So if any of this rings true lets getting talking
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