Chicago-based submissive/little/pet looking for a partner in the city! [repost 💁🏻]

Recently I posted these two Reddit posts seeking folks in the city for various kinky activities. I'm pleased with some of the responses I've gotten, and I'm exploring some fun possibilities. Still, I can't help but wonder if perhaps I should be posing a different question. So now, in addition to sending me info about your interests, disposition, and what you look like, I'd also like to know what feminism means to you, and/or how feminism informs the way you interact in kinky spaces with submissives. This will tell me a lot about what you're made of (... and what you could make me do).

Me: 22 years old, tough n' tender service submissive. Tiny. Delightful. Devoted. Sharp as a whip. Curvy, tattooed, would fit right in on Suicide Girls, probably. There's some more info about what I look like in my past posts, and I will, of course, send you a photo if I'm interested.

You are: 25-45 (ideally late 20's, early thirties) residing in the city of Chicago and able to host, experienced with ongoing kinky relationships. You live your life with compassion, care, and positivity. You're able to express yourself emotionally and be vulnerable; you seek this in others. You have an intuition about people, can catch on to what they're hiding and what they might be afraid of. You're stable and feel confident you can provide stable, steady support and meet with regularity. You're kinky as fuck, and understand that a scene is nothing without mutual trust, safety, and open communication. You're a sadist, hedonist, a Daddy Dom, or perhaps a whole other combination of archetypes who love affectionate, firm, uplifting, consensual cruelty/degradation.

When it comes to men, I don't have a "type" at all, though I'm partial to men who look like Alton Brown and have the sadistic, devious streak of his Cutthroat Kitchen persona. I also enjoy men who dress well - not in any specific style, but in a way that you can clearly tell they put care into it. Your outlook is much more important than what you look like. Attraction can always grow, provided there's a seed of lust there to start from.

I'm flexible around what I'm looking for, always trying to find that sweet spot between having the structure and boundaries I need, and being open enough to account for multiple possibilities. So at the moment I'm open to: Full-on Dominants, semi-casual play partners, people who just wanna be part of group sex with me, and people who might want to go with the flow. (Not my strong suit, admittedly, but I'm trying.)

I'm into: patience, enthusiastic consent, emotional vulnerability, compassion, open-mindedness, affectionate cruelty, being appreciated beyond my body (and what I can accomplish with it), learning new things, trying new things, sessions that last entire afternoons, frank yet sensitive communication, feeling special, and being special. I also love The Office more than anything in this world.

Also into: service submission, spanking, structure, consequences for misbehaviour, ample praise, filthy blowjobs, dirty talk, the nurturing nature of Daddy Doms, discussing kink till I'm blue in the face, hairpulling, bruises, orgasm denial, sex in public, being lovingly called a slut, affirmation, tenderly degrading piss stuff, choking, forehead kisses, nicknames just for me, being held down, being pushed around, being a messy girl. And, well. Lots more.

*** IMPORTANT*** Please PM me if interested - and only PM. If you leave a comment, Kik me, Fetlife me, show up at my house... You're going to be blocked. No take-backs. And as usual, if you don't live in Chicago (the city proper), cannot host (this is a big one), have zero kink experience, send me a dick pic, and/or don't pay close attention to the details of the post, I will not hesitate to block you. Additionally, don't take this fresh approach as an invitation, if I have already expressed that I don't think we'd be a good match. It won't get you very far.

And, I can't believe I still have to say this, but: DON'T BE A CREEP.

(ALSO, PLEASE DON'T TELL ME ABOUT YOUR DICK. I DON'T CARE, UNLESS WE ARE IN A SCENE AND IT IS, CONSENSUALLY, ALL UP IN AND AROUND MY SPACE. THEN I'M INTO IT. BUT ONLY THEN.)

On a softer note to the kind men I firmly believe are out there: thanks for reading. I appreciate you already ☺️