Hey there,
This isnât a sneaky way to get sexâpromise. My therapist actually suggested cuddle therapy as a way to foster healing and connection. After 18 months in recovery from drugs and alcohol, Iâm doing the inner work to rebuild self-esteem, lessen anxiety, and cultivate healthier intimacy.
What do I bring to the table? I take care of myselfâphysically, emotionally, and mentally. I cook well (maybe Iâll cook for you!). Iâm fit, kind, emotionally intelligent, and working on being more assertive. I give great massages. My space is cozy and clean. Iâm 5â10â, 160 lbs, African American, and apparently, I donât look my age (you be the judge).
Who am I looking for? Someone kind, self-aware, communicative, and down-to-earth. Bonus points if you take care of yourself and are mindful of the world we live in (i.e., aware of power, privilege, oppression, etc.). 420 friendly but totally optional.
Letâs keep it real: ⢠We should find each other attractive, or at least not turned off. It matters. ⢠Boundaries, consent, and intentionsâletâs talk about them beforehand. ⢠Letâs grab a coffee, ice cream, or take a walk before we dive in.
If this resonates, send me a message with a photo, and Iâll gladly share one back.
Looking forward to connecting.
Be well, Me
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