i’ve never really had the chance to commit to exploring power dynamics even though it’s always been of interest to me. i have historically always been in a dom (which i enjoy) but all of my past partners have been purely subs . I am very curious about experiencing both ends of the power dynamic spectrum. The idea of submitting to the right partner has always been extremely hot to me. I have also been interested in experimenting with prostate play, which was a struggle to express to natural sub partners (i admit partly out of fear of rejection). Ideally i would like someone that exudes more of a gentle mommy dom type vibe as i’m not really into extreme domination, degradation, humiliation, and the farther end of the sun spectrum but if it feels right i would be willing to experiment with softer forms of these things. Bonus points if you’re into oil, massaging, latex, or some types of role-play ;). I would physically describe myself as someone who somewhat naturally has a dom aesthetic as i do have a short beard, deep voice, and am fairly muscular (i promise i’m not trying to sound arrogant but this is the least douchey i could try to describe myself while still being direct).
I find health/safety very important so i do want someone DDF and would be willing to meet to get coffee/tea or something of that nature just to make sure things feel right and we are on the same page :)
Apart from the NSFW nature of this post i enjoy reading, philosophy, weightlifting, cooking, and occasionally movies/video games. If this sounds interesting then feel free to msg me and we can go from there.
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