I love a established/mature/cougar type of woman but thats kinda hard to find organically so im making this post. Im looking for an older woman (lets go w 30 , older the better though) who knows what she wants but somethings missing. Maybe its the lack of time to date, feeling “neglected” (not sexually satisfied), a complicated schedule, maybe even you just wanna dress up and have a nice dinner date filled w flirting & laughing etc. Basically you just want a connection & someone who understands your situation. This is where i come in. I want to hear about YOU and what YOU want. Lets chat and see if we can both provide that SPARK.

Hi ladies! So you clicked on me! We both are thinking sigh, here we go again - trying to find what we want in this messy, online world! Dont be discouraged. Ill lay it all out from my end now so you might want to put your reading glasses on! What im seeking (for now) is a similar mindset/wants (high libido, crave substance, own your weirdness, love deep unfiltered convos, heavy on the banter/sarcasm.

Who i am: Single, Tall (6’0”), DDF, thick, bearded male. I work in nuclear safety 🤓and travel all over IL for it so distance doesnt mean much to me (prefer city/nw burbs)

I pride myself on being a raw, respectful, blunt individual. Firm believer that communication & effort needs to be honored. Team work makes the dream work!! Dominant personality but very social, spontaneous and playful. If you cant dish sarcasm, banter and wittiness like we are playing ping pong - i dont want it!

Hobbies: reading, writing, art, cooking, watching sports/docs/thriller movies, lifting, holistic/wellness practices, stealing memes, random road trips, spontaneous acts, trying new coffee spots/restaurants.

Shoot me a PM if this intrigues you and please provide some info about yourself/whatcha looking for etc when you reach out. Exchanging pics/verification is a must. No rush, but if theres mutual interest id be very open to a public meet(coffee/dinner etc)