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What’s up everyone, I’m in my 30’s, normal, gay male in Lincoln Park. I’ve posted before but figured I would get a lot more specific with what I’m looking for because why not?

Aside from the normal stuff, I’ve been slowly discovering things I’m into sexually (overall I’d say I’m fairly inexperienced.) I know I’m attracted to masculinity, straight men, etc.

For some context that I think is important: I don’t want to date but I would like a friendship. Not trying to brag by saying this, but I don’t have a hard time with getting dates or dating other gay men. I’m also not into hooking up, but that’s also not an issue if I really wanted it. All that to say that I will not agree to meet with the first straight dude that hits me up. There’s gotta be some common interests and compatibility.

What am I looking for and why? In the most basic terms, I’m looking for a single straight-identifying dude, who is looking for new friends and enjoys getting head (and is open minded enough to let a guy do it.) It’s something I enjoy doing but for some reason I’m not into it with gay dudes. Brain chemistry is off or something.

In previous relationships, guys want me to be more dominant based on my appearance and demeanor. While it’s enjoyable, I am just open to more and want to explore more of what I guess would be more on the submissive/kink side of things. A term I recently discovered is “cockwarming” which honestly sounds incredible. I’d want to be on the giving end of that.

As you can see I’m kinda all over the place. Not really looking for bi dudes or to get reciprocation- we will not be a match in this instance.

Open to any race, hwp, preferably 45 or under, someone who can travel (I’d rather host), non smoking (420 ok), ddf and good hygiene. Be willing to send pics including face. Emphasizing ddf and good hygiene.

Thank you if you read this far. I know this is a total long shot so not expecting much. But if this resonated with you at all, please hit me up and let’s chat!