Hi Reddit,

Polyamorous, neurodivergent guy here, and I'm looking to make some more connections that could also be playful and sensually fun. I'm open as to what that looks like exactly, it could be a FWBs kinda thing or something that evolves into a more serious and committed relationship...the main thing is I'd like to find someone I could hang with consistently, and it's a little more involved than a purely casual thing.

I've been polyamorous since 2012 and have had experience in all kinds of different dynamics, from the kitchen-table variety to more separate and individual relationships. Currently, I have a nesting partner and a long distance partner. I'd love to meet some more people locally.

More About Me

I have a deep lover of all kinds of horror movies, from the good stuff to the absolute trash. I also spend a good amount of time playing video games. I love animals and spend a lot of time annoying my cat. Mental health and disability are especially important topics for me. I once co-chaired a resource group for neurodiversity for my last employer, and, in 2021, went through a severe mental health crisis of my own.

That also means that my energy for things can vary dramatically from day to day (my mood is stable, but I still have some fatigue and low energy for social things sometimes). Anyway, I'll never judge you for needing to take care of yourself, and I need the same kind of flexibility with the connections I make.

I'm also a little bit of a hedonistic debauchery goblin and deeply enjoy good food, good drinks and good sex. I'm the type of person to encourage other people to treat themselves to their guilty pleasures...from food to TV shows and everything in between.

Some people have a devil on one shoulder and an angel on the other. It's just devils over here.

If you're interested, send me a message and let me know a little about you.