Hi Reddit,

My partner and I are looking for someone else to play with together. We’re pretty open about what that might look like and like exploring with someone, but we do want someone who’d be comfortable being sensually debaucherous with both of us. We also prefer to have some kind of connection that goes beyond just sex, so the ideal person could be a consistent FWBs.

We’re both people who like spending a lot of time focused on pleasing the people we’re with and making sure they have a good time. That often translates to a lot of touching, massaging, switching between sex, oral and back again, and just generally a lot of sensual play focused on making each other feel good.

Outside the bedroom, we’re both really into horror movies and spend a lot of time watching stuff together or going out for food when we have the energy for it. We’ve also both been polyamorous for a good while; about two years together and 10 years of polyam shenanigans before we met. We both have a variety of chronic health stuff, so we tend to be pretty chill and keep things flexible. We appreciate the same kind of understanding….bodies and brains just don’t work well sometimes.

My partner is 36, AFAB non-binary, dark brown curly hair, short and curvy. They’re pretty femme, but have had top surgery. 

I’m masculine, 6 ft tall, slim with short brown hair, brown eyes and a dark beard that I usually keep trimmed. I’m a pretty typical gamer-geek-nerd sort of person.

We both get screened for STIs regularly and are careful about using protection. 

If this sounds like it could be fun for you, send me a message and let us know some things about you, what you’re into and what you’re looking for.