Me: moved to Chicago just about two years ago and am still building a network of friends and more than friends. Broke up with a serious girlfriend about 5 months ago (we were long distance for a while but it just wasn’t sustainable). Some qualities about myself that I think are attractive: I’m funny, intelligent, empathetic, and I’ve mastered the Oxford comma. I’ve been on the apps and have gone on several dates, but here’s the thing: I’m not really feeling capable of managing anyone’s expectations about the future right now. Most of the women I meet on the apps are looking for something more serious, and I want to be respectful of that and not be a fuckboy when someone is looking for more than just a casual fuck (or several, potentially ongoing). So, I’m looking for someone that I enjoy spending time with, who is attractive and attracted to me, and is looking to get (moderately) freaky. I am 5’8” and muscular — I typically workout about five times a week. I am also great at ordering food for the table, if you’re into that sort of thing. I have a nice, clean apartment and can host or travel.
You: 27f or older, have read multiple books in the past year, speak your mind, and have an opinion on the Oxford comma. I’m fine with most body types, but prefer someone who’s at least moderately physically active. Tattoos and piercings are a big plus, but definitely not mandatory. I’m interested in watching movies, ideally something scary since it’s spooky season. Other than that, I’m mostly just looking for someone interesting who’s looking to get railed.
Happy to exchange pics if we vibe.
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