Hi! Id like to start off this post by saying im not looking for a specific number but if youre around my age or older - that would be ideal. Ive dated women who were older than me and throughly enjoyed it but its hard to find. Im not roaming the arts & craft stores, joining a book club or bingo halls (ok, that one was slightly a joke) but maybe i should! I digress… Anyways, im coming from a place of understanding. More responsibilities and work can make things tricky sometimes… so maybe your sexual needs/wants are being neglected? Wanting a new, fresh start? Minimum time/want to date? Or maybe youre a Cougar? Regardless, i want to hear your story and would love to chat… lets see what unfolds?

Who i am: Single, Tall (6’0”), DDF, thick, bearded male who most likely will be able to toss ya around the bedroom. I work in nuclear safety 🤓and travel all over IL for it so distance doesnt mean much to me (prefer city/nw burbs)

I pride myself on being a raw, respectful, blunt individual. Firm believer that communication & effort needs to be prioritized. Team work makes the dream work!! Dom tendencies but very social, spontaneous and playful. If you cant dish sarcasm, banter and wittiness like we are playing ping pong - i dont want it!

Hobbies: reading, writing, art, cooking, watching sports/docs/thriller movies, lifting, holistic/wellness practices, stealing memes, random road trips, spontaneous acts, trying new coffee spots/restaurants.

Kinks: D/S, CNC, TPE. DDLG. Oral enthusiast. Anal/ass play - none of these are “must haves”. The most important thing to me is fun, flexibility and an open mind. Honestly, ill be more intrigued by what YOU enjoy.. im all ears…

Shoot me a PM if this intrigues you and please provide some info about yourself/whatcha looking for etc when you reach out. Exchanging pics/verification is a must. Very open to meeting prior (coffee/dinner etc)